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How to manage different Christmas traditions



Christmas is a special time of the year, the lights start to twinkle, the music resounds that the date is coming, decorations in the streets and houses, lots of joy, warmth and celebration, full of traditions and rituals. Apparently, this period is full of emotional and social stimuli, triggering deep memories and evocations in most people. For children it can be very magical, and for adults quite nostalgic.

Memories play a vital role in the way people perceive and celebrate Christmas. Past experiences, whether from childhood or significant moments during the Christmas season, shape everyone's traditions and expectations.

However, for many people it can be a date with a very different meaning, full of challenges, feelings of sadness and doubts, especially when it comes to reconciling different family, cultural or religious traditions or dealing with the absence of people who won't be there that year.

When you're creating your Christmas with a new family or group, you'll probably also want to keep some of your favourite traditions, and if you're a growing family, you'll want to keep that tradition going for future generations. Just as you may have inherited traditional Christmas decorations from your culture or family, customs are also important. These might include listening to Christmas music, decorating a tree or lighting an advent candle during dinner every night.

Things that happen in the outside world and society's expectations can make Christmas harder to cope with. For example: feeling pressure to have fun and look happy. Dealing with the different expectations and practices can be emotionally challenging.


Here are some tips to help make Christmas a time of harmony and understanding.

  1. Communication and empathy: Communication is the key to dealing with differences. Be honest and try to have open conversations about family traditions, without judgement. Listen attentively and show empathy when discussing how each person feels about the traditions. Recognising and validating each other's feelings is essential to finding a balance.

  2. Flexibility and understanding: Being flexible is the key. It won't always be possible to adhere to all the traditions of all the cultures or families involved. Try to find a balance where everyone feels included and respected.

  3. Respect for diversity: It's crucial to respect cultural and religious differences. Christmas can have different meanings and practices for different people. Appreciating and learning about different traditions can enrich the celebration, creating an atmosphere of respect and tolerance.

  4. Creation of new traditions: Encourage the creation of new traditions that combine elements from different cultures or family practices that integrate the best of all practices, allowing everyone to feel included and respected. This can involve preparing special meals, exchanging meaningful gifts, or charitable and leisure activities. Creating new memories can promote strong bonds between people in a unique way.

  5. Self-care and stress management: Dealing with different expectations can be challenging. Practise self-care. Take time for yourself, practise relaxation techniques, exercise and maintain healthy habits to deal with stress. Allow yourself to be alone if that is your intention.

  6. Identification of values: Identify and emphasise the values common to all the traditions involved. Values such as love, generosity, family unity and compassion are often shared between different cultures and can serve as a basis for celebration.

Managing different traditions at Christmas requires understanding, flexibility and openness to new perspectives. Celebrating diversity can enrich the Christmas experience, making it a time of connection and unity between different cultures and traditions. It's an opportunity to create new memories, making this season a true celebration of joy and love.


Merry Christmas!

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